My husband has been pressuring me for a while about this fantasy he has about watching me have sex with another man. I love him and understand that we all have our fantasies but I have a problem with him pressuring me making me feel like I should agree to have sex with another man while he watches because that will show him how much I love him and that I will do anything to make him happy. I don’t want to lose him but I also don’t want to have sex with any other man but him.
Your husband should not be pressuring you to have sex with other men and you should in no way feel like that is something you have to do to prove you love your husband or to prove your willingness to do anything to make him happy. Your husband needs to accept and respect that you’re not into this lifestyle. He’ll just have to be satisfied with his fantasies. Asking you to dress up like a nurse and role play is one thing. Asking you to have sex with another man while he watches is something altogether different. That’s the sort of thing you do because you enjoy the lifestyle and want to do it, or because you sincerely don’t mind trying it to please your spouse, but if you have a problem with it as you’ve indicated, your husband is one hundred percent in the wrong for trying to push the issue.