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If you found out your husband cheated and had multiple affairs with women couples and other men what would you do?

I’ve stayed around in my marriage despite a lot of offenses committed against me by my husband so I am not qualified to answer this probably. I think though that anyone in this situation should put their life first. That’s been the mistake I’ve made and many women have made who’ve stayed. We didn’t put our life first.

Speaking from my own experience I know I’ve stayed in my marriage mostly out of fear. There wasn’t any one specific fear. It was a combination of many fears that crippled me mentally. I also know I stayed because I never valued myself enough. I never valued my life enough.

I am no longer at that place where I need to claim I’ve stayed for love. I know I have not stayed for love. I stayed for lack of love for myself. I did not love myself enough to leave for the sake of protecting myself from the possible harm my husband’s behavior could inflict.

If your husband is engaging in risky behavior that can cost you your life you need to find the courage to leave before it’s too late.

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Hi, though my real name is not Soliel, it is the name I have chosen to represent myself here. I am a freelance writing wife and mother who is in no way an expert in the subject of love and marriage. My posts, particularly any posts that appear to be giving advise or providing answers to questions, should be regarded as an expression of my personal opinion on the subject of discussion. Nothing I write is meant to be presented as if coming from an expert source. I have no professional qualifications or specialized knowledge in marriage and relationship fields of study. I am not a marriage counselor nor do I have any background in counseling. I present my thoughts much in the same light as a mother, sister or friend might. I only hope to help contribute to the ongoing conversation about love and marriage relationships and what makes them succeed or fail. If you disagree with something I write you are welcome to share your thoughts by leaving a comment. I do get to approve or disapprove my comments so please keep in mind that comments intended to offend are not likely to be approved. If anything I write offends anyone I do offer my sincere apology.

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