It’s probably normal for your husband to have a fantasy to watch you have sex with another man. If not normal it’s certainly not uncommon. A quick Google search and you’ll soon find that you aren’t the only wife with a husband wanting to watch you have sex with another man; but here’s the thing, just because we fantasize about something doesn’t mean we need to push to have the thing we fantasize about happen. That’s the thing about fantasies. They are fantasies because of the unlikelihood and impracticality of them becoming reality. If you happen to share this particular fantasy of your husband’s then hey, you’re both adults and what you do in the privacy of your own home is your business. However, if what your husband is asking you to do is something you don’t want to do, don’t compromise yourself to make him happy. He’s not asking you to role play and dress up as a dominatrix and whip him for being a bad boy, or play the role of a submissive while he dominates you and punishes you for being a bad girl. He’s asking you to have sex with someone else so that he can fulfill his fantasy of watching while another man makes love to his wife. It’s okay for him to have this fantasy, but it’s not okay for him to pressure you to make it happen. If you don’t want to have sex with another man make this clear to your husband. It’s his responsibility to accept your feelings in the matter and let it go. This is not a time when you should compromise for the sake of him having his kinky pleasure. You should not let another man make love to you while your husband watches unless this is something you want.
Thursday, November 11, 2010
If your husband wants to watch you have sex with another man but you’re not comfortable with the idea don’t do it
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