After 35 years of marriage my husband walked out. We didn’t really have a great marriage but I never expected this after we’ve been together for 35 years. I’m devastated and I don’t know what to do. My husband have been taking care of me financially for the last 25 years after he decide he didn’t want me to go out to work anymore.  He decided I should stay home and keep the place clean and cook and take care of the kids. It was fine by me because I preferred to be home with my kids but the kids are grown up and on their own, and since the last one moved out I noticed my husband started going out and staying out a lot late at night sometimes coming home at 5 o’clock in the morning and I think he may have been having an affair for the last 6 years, but I can’t really prove it; but I think he walked out to be with the woman.  I’m 56 years old and I just don’t know how I’m going to start over now and what I’m going to do. I could use some advise from anybody that’s been in a similar situation.