Well, this one is new. I usually come across stuff about husbands wanting to watch their wives with other men, or wives wanting to watch their husbands with other women, or husbands wanting to watch their wives with another woman; but I’ve never come across stuff about wives wanting to watch their husbands with other men. I think it’s an interesting subject for gauging people’s attitudes, because I think in all the other scenarios, while you might get frowns, you wouldn’t necessarily get the questions I imagine would come up in cases where wives want to watch their husbands with other men.

I don’t know but the way people appear to be to me, it’s hard to imagine very many heterosexual men being willing to indulge their wives in a situation where she desires to see him engage in sexual activity with another man. Our attitudes are so convoluted that we would actually make a distinction between a wife being intimate with another woman to please her husband and a husband being intimate with another man to please his wife. We tend to be more willing to accept one than to accept the other, and a heterosexual woman who would never consider being intimate with another woman might react less violently at the suggestion of intimacy with another woman than a heterosexual man opposed to the idea of intimacy between two males might react at the suggestion of intimacy with another man.

Sexual curiosity is normal and what people are willing to do sexually to please their spouse is nobody’s business except the two people in the marriage; but there are some curiosities that I think, if you have them and your spouse is not willing to indulge your fantasies, it’s really on you to accept that your spouse is not comfortable with doing the things you are asking than it is on your spouse to compromise his or her beliefs and principles for the sake of you getting your sexual fantasies indulged.