My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for about 8 years. Before my son was born we had been partying and doing drugs. My boyfriend was horrible mean abusive so I turn to another man for comfort. I became pregnant had my son and as soon as i seen him I knew it was not my boyfriends. The man who I believe is the biological father keeps quiet but sometimes wants to know if my son is really his. My son is five now . I’m with my boyfriend but am truly in love with the possible bio father. So 2 things should I tell the truth and should i have dna done . Its not fair for anyone involved. I should have told the truth from beginning.
have a son 5 years old whose bio father would love to be in his life but my boyfriend on and off for 8 years thinks he is the father