We went to counseling and he swore I was the best wife. I wanted us to work on our communication problems and strengthen our marriage, only to be lied to in my face and talked about like a dog behind my back. With the counselor and in conversation with me, he said I was the best wife and there was nothing I needed to change. Then, he goes to facebook and maligns me to his buddy’s wife. Then, he had the gall to lie even after he left the page open and I found the conversation and printed it out. This woman said all types of foul things about me, and he never once defended me. Keep in mind, this is all after he claimed (with hugs and kisses no less) that I was the “best wife ever” and went on about how wonderful and helpful I was in the counseling sessions to the counselor. Then, this. This woman said: “I wish I could set her straight, lol” I wonder about what? That part was not mentioned. She went on to say a lot more, including: “I don’t get it, if she is so damn miserable, why doesn’t she just leave? Nothing you do is good enough for her, I don’t understand. You do everything and she is so ungrateful and ugly to you.”
LOL, is this bitch for real? I don’t even KNOW this bitch! My wuss husband is so much of a punk that he would not even stand up for me, and even tried to LIE to me about this conversation until I busted out the print out and threw it in his flipping face. Who is she to speak of me this way? I wonder what the entire conversation was all about. Naturally, I’ll never get that from him. I want to PUKE thinking of how I trusted this man, shared my life and body with this man, and how much more is he keeping from me? Why is this my life?
And can you believe this? He won’t let me confront her, because keeping this buddy of his that has a connection for a job that he is interested in, is more important than his wife’s honor. Unbelievable. This is not the first time he has stayed friends with people who disrespect me, but I suppose I thought that he would change. Ha ha, jokes on me.
Now after devoting my life to him and our two kids and ending my military career so he could focus better on his, I’m facing the prospect of having to start my life over at 33 years old. How can I stay with this man? This is too much. Just the fact that he was going to try to lie until I busted out the proof and he was then left speechless and backpedaling says so much. God, I hate him so much. I mean real, true hate. I don’t think I have ever truly hated anyone until now. He has the honor of being the first human being I have ever hated.