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Husband won’t eat me out

I give my husband oral sex all the time. I never really like to do it but he loves it so I do it. And I watch videos and practice on toys to learn how to do it good bc I want it to be really good for him. He gets it like 5 times a week. And I don’t complain how I don’t like doing it. And I never refuse him. But he won’t return the favor. He says he doesn’t like to eat p**sy. It doesn’t seem fair to me bc I don’t really like to s*ck d*ck but I do it for him. So why is it okay for him to refuse to eat me out?

I feel really cheated. I can’t get to orgasm just from regular sex. And even if I could my husband is kinda weird. He prefers to get s*cked off mostly. So we don’t really have actual sex a whole lot. Maybe just once a week. So I’m just mostly not getting anything out of this except a lot of frustration. But that doesn’t seem to matter all that much to him. No matter what I say, he plain refuses to go down on me. He says women can’t ever be truly clean down there because of how we’re made. And he doesn’t want to get vaginal fluids in his mouth.

But I’m always clean. I practice good hygiene. And I’ve had past boyfriends that loved to eat me out. This is really upsetting. I don’t think its right. I loved my husband enough to get past my hangups about oral sex. He’s okay with coming in my mouth. I didn’t want him doing that but he said it was perfectly natural and something a woman would do for the man she loves. But he won’t even consider trying to get past his hang-ups for me. He refuses to see that it’s the same thing as if I would refuse him. This is ruining my marriage. Any suggestions how to fix from anybody out there that had this problem?

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  1. Joy

    I have a boyfriend that wants to marry me. We been yogether for 2 years now and he is so perfect to me .he works and keeps me home buys me every new phone. Gives me money to spend for things that we need, basically i do all the shopping. Protects me with his life…BUT he doesnt want to return the favor. I though it was just a phase, then i thought maybe if we marry he will be sure i am the one. I dont like doing it and i use to do it almost every day 2-3 times just to make him happy. Believe me he was. But every time i ask him to we end up fighting. After a while i started it to not do it. Now i do it 1 a week or none at all. Just the other night he wanted me to do it and i said no he got mad and fell asleep. Im not mad i dont care anymore. My ex loved doing it to me because he wanted to make me happy and that gives me confidence and pleasure. Im thinking of ending my relationship because i feel cheated if i stay. Love is unconditional and bountyless. At least mine is and i expect that in return. I dont want to be old and watching porn or using toys for satisfaction. Thats why i married

  2. Ana Bri

    My husband and I have been together for 6 years and he has never eaten me I do it to him all the time. But what’s worst is he used to do it to a girl he dated before him and I married. I don’t know why I’m good looking a practice good hygiene. I’ve only date another guy before him. That girl he used to eat out had actually slept with a long list of people

  3. Teodor

    Get some self respect. How can you loose your pride to such an extent. He’s just using you like a piece of meat. Your husband is a jerk. I wouldn’t spend even a day around such person if I were a woman.

  4. katherineu

    I have experienced the same thing and ladies your husbands are being selfish. You have to tell him or he will not give you oral sex. I have been with husband for 15 years, in the beginning yes he would perform oral sex and the he stopped doing it for YEARS, maybe seven or eight years went by and then I finally let him have it. I’m the type of woman that calls him out on his selfish bullshit. I said you know its getting old that I’m giving you BJ’s on a regular basis and I get nothing in return, your kidding me right? I don’t think I’m interested in giving you BJ’s anymore since you don’t reciprocate, its not that I want you to go down on me every time we have sex but once in a while it would be nice.
    Mind you I do take care of myself, I practice cleanliness and he does as well and I know its not an odor thing, its him being lazy and selfish. The conversation helped somewhat but I don’t want to have anything else to say but good luck in the sex department.

  5. A R

    Finaly i got pissed on him during sex that i gave everything the way u want but u dont even feel like to touch me or eat me. I said during the sex lets not sex any more and i left the room.

  6. actlikearealwomenandarealmanwillcome

    these men are exactly what they aren’t eating, PUSSYS. Men need to fucking suck it up and eat pussy and ass. Seriously, we need to demand it, and if they leave they weren’t good anyway. Marriage is about compromising. Men make us swallow their God damn jizz but, can’t be bothered to even lick our pussys??????? NO. that is not right. That is unfair and in my opinion they do not care about you.

  7. Kim

    My husband used to eat me out. Then I had our first child, who was a stillborn. That was 3 months ago. He won’t lick my vagina and its a weird thing… He doesn’t want his face around it. :/ I keep asking for it.. He refuses. I’m starting to get to the point where I’m gunna refuse him oral. Its been a year for me!!


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