Hell everyone,

I am seeking some advice on how to fix a problem I’m dealing with as a newlywed.

My wife complains a lot about little things I occasionally forget to do and makes me hear about it . for example she complains about me putting recycling in a certain location or not putting the dishes in the dishwasher in the mornings etc. The thing is we both do these things. There have been many times where she will forget to pick up her pop cans her wipe the sink down after using it etc but when I see this I usually end up just picking up the pop cans or cleaning the sink. I have always done this without complaining but I feel like she doesn’t notice that I do these things and I don’t want to do what she does because I think it’ll just lead to fights and just hurt our relationship.

Any solutions on how to fix this problem?