Guest wrote: I am so attracted to my sister in law. She is very hot looking. I have been trying to seduce her for months. Still i couldn’t. I want to do this secretly. I dont want to get any problems with my wife or my family. my sis in law presently work with me in my office.

How can i seduce her to like me and feel the pleasure with me. I dont want to marry her or love her. all i want is a casual relationship and to keep our family relationship continuously. Please help with useful comments.

Editor’s Comment

Attraction to an in-law is a very common thing. There’s nothing wrong with being attracted to your sister in law. But she is your wife’s sister. So assuming she and your wife aren’t at odds with each other to where your sister-in-law would be wanting to hurt her sister by having an affair with you, you’ll probably be wasting your time pursing your interest. And not only that, you’d be risking your marriage in the process.

Having an affair with your sister-in-law without getting into any problems with your wife or your family is wishful thinking. If your sister-in-law had an affair with you it would be for one of two reasons:

  1. She’s attracted to you as much as you to her and can’t resist the temptation
  2. She wants to hurt her sister

Either of these two scenarios bring some psychological stuff with them that will inevitably result in the problems you hope to avoid.

Presumably you care both about your wife and also about your sister-in-law. You want them both to be happy. A rift between them will likely mean unhappiness for both of them and discord in the family at large. So assess the situation this way:

If you don’t pursue your sister in law you do not risk her and your wife’s relationship with each other (assuming she would have an affair with you). You do not risk making them both individually unhappy on account of a rift between them. You do not risk a rift in the family on account of your wife dealing with:

  1. her husband cheating on her with her own sister
  2. her sister betraying her

And your sister-in-law dealing with

  1. her guilt and shame for sleeping with her sister’s husband
  2. the rift between her and her sister caused by the affair

Lots of people suffer if you pursue your sister in law and you get what you want.

No one really suffers if you don’t. You just live with a secret desire and some frustration over not being able to fulfill your desires. That’s the reality of life for most people. And they’re able to get on with life just fine, often even getting over their obsession with the object of their desire.