My twin sister says my husband has been flirting with her – he denies it
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My twin sister says my husband has been flirting with her – he denies it

My twin sister called my recently to tell me that my husband has been flirting with her. She said there have been two incidents. I have been ill for the last four months and she said she waited to tell me when I was feeling better. She said the first time was a year ago and that he had made a suggestive comment to her in my kitchen when I was out on the patio with family members. She said she decided it was not a big deal and was just overlooking it. She didnt tell her husband either. Since that time we have all been together on many occassions for dinner, movies and parties. I became ill in May and have had many test and surgery. I am not completely well but I am so much better than I was. My sister took me to some of my appointments and was stopping by to see me often, we only live 5 minutes away from each other. She suddendly stopped visiting and would only call or text briefly. She finally called me to tell me that at one of my tests that she and my husband went to with me that will i was in the procedure he again was fliring with her. Brushing her hair and asking how she was doing. She said later that day while I was sleeping that he patted her on her rear. She says that she told her husband about the incidents and that he wanted to talk to my husband but did not. I confronted my husband about all of the incidents and he says he does not recall anything last summer in the kitchen. He says he did sit by her at the hospital and was talking to her because she had been having marital problems and he was just showing concern. He said he did brush her hair back over her shoulder but not in seductivve way. He also says that he bumped her with his hand when he was passing by her but that it was an accident. He says she stopped and was turning to talk to him and he turned quickly and just barely bumped her. He also says that she stopped by once a few monthes ago before I got home and hugged him when she came in and then she rushed over and hugged him again and left. Im in the middle of it all, i insisted that my husband appologize and he did. He tried calling and she nor her husband would answer. He sent a very sincere text sppology but could get no response. I believe some of what each of them is telling but not all of it. Ive been praying and trying to be patient hoping that will open up. I have a gnawing feeling that there may be more that needs to come out. For now I feel betrayed by both of them. Any thoughts would be welcome.

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  1. marie

    When I was ill a few years ago my husband started flirting with a woman he saw occasionally at a hang out we both use to go to. He said later it was because he felt very lonely and missed the sexual tension between us when I was ill. A guys sexualality gives him a deep sence of feeling like a man. Flirting is soooo harmless and can actually be good for the spouse who is feeling insecure. He stopped doing it and I vamped up the sexual tension between us ,light teaseing,inuendos long strokes and massages, being silly and playful with him. It worked like a charm. He just missed me and was trying to fill the void my illness had created. Im not mad I dont feel betrayed. I get it. Maybe your husband misses you when you were well,vibrant and had energy and health. A wife brings out a lot of delicious feelings in her man. Hes not cheating on you . Id say increase some affection and sexual tension. Maybe your sister is enjoying the attention he gives her and feels scared and guilty about it so she confided in you to make it stop. Otherwise she would have handled it herself and said directly to him that shes feeling uncomfortable around him. Its not a huge deal. Flirting is natural and normal to a degree. I wouldnt feel betrayed sweety. Just handle it and let it go. Your husband sounds like a keeper.


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