I struggle with my husband monthly regarding this situation, his daughter has been doing this sport since she was 8, now 15, the sport requires a 3 day trip to different states almost monthly, recently my husband lost his job and will not have a check coming in for several weeks due to a pending background issue which caused him to lose his job. Knowing this wouldn’t you cancel the four day trip that is planned 10 hours away (4 states away) and save the $700 – $800 that it cost for this weekend? He will not cancel it, and yells at me when I bring up the fact that I will be paying all the bills until he gets this situation worked out, he says that she HAS to go to this event, I can tell you she doesn’t. What to do?
whats more important the kids sport or paying the bills