Ive been reading the posts. All say hate, I dont hate my husband I’m just not sure if he has given up or figures the marrige isnt worth the effort?
We have been married 6 yrs now. I love being married, as far as I know he does (did) to. As of late he doesn’t want to go out with me any where when we are home I try to talk to him and he answers me with 1 or 2 words, then the answers he gives I cant even keep on subject.
He asks how my day was and I answer him by telling him what I did then I notice he’s not paying attention so I just quit talking and then Im offended.
I sit next to him and wait for him to ask me something or even need me to get him anything just so I feel as tho he wants me. Sometimes I ask him if he wants to take the dog out for a walk, or just us going for a walk. He never wants to do that. He tells me if I can think of something to do that he wants to do we can do it. I just give up.
I ask if he wants to cuddle he mostly answers yea. Then he either takes dog out or I get sick of waiting so I just turn over and say never mind. If we have sex I just ask if he wsnts to do it and either he says yes or if he dont he says if you want to? I cant remember the last time he was romantic or put any effort into for play.
I get tired of always being the one who wants it first.
I was snooping on his phone well I found that some of his messages I couldnt read them. I finally figured out how to read them I was some hook up site. Their was one that said quit sending me naked pics or I will report you. Then When I asked him about it he said, He didnt know how to hide messages on his phone, and he didnt know how that particular site got in his messages. Then he said when he watches porn they must be the pop ups.
I’m not stupid. It really hurts to know that he thinks I am. Then a week later. I find a add that says you want to have a 3 some not one but two days. Well it was read but not deleted. What is going on? He wont talk to me I hope someone has some answers