We have been married almost 25 years. The last 20 I’ve tried everything to get my husband to do anything or just go for a ride, something. All he every wants to do is watch TV with his face buried in a laptop or some gadget. The weekends he takes off golfing with the guys, I’m home by myself again. We bought bikes 6~7 years ago, he’s rode with maybe 5 times at most. These were not cheap bikes (trex), he just doesnt want to go any place or do anything with me. I have no doubt he loves me. We have sex maybe 2-3 times a year, I’m to the point of I could care less. So after he was out golfing all day he asked me if I was made at him? IIke it ever matters if I’m upset. I responded with not at all, I get it!” I get it” as in I get that you don’t want to spend any time or do anything with me. I don’t think he really knew what I was saying. Im disabled due to an injury but for God sakes I’m not dead. I give up.
Thanks for letting me vent.