Bad Attitude
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Bad Attitude

My husband is not well. He has bad arthritis n takes lots of meds. He had to stop working 2 yes ago.. His SS ck is a joke. Not his fault.
I have to pull the weight. It makes it so difficult on me.
He complains every day about something!! His pain…the money…whaaaa no food yet doesn’t help with groceries list.
I have grown to the point where I plain DON’T LIKE him at all at times.
He can be self centered…I am not allowed to feel sick or bad or whatever.
I regret this marriage.
Oh well I cannot divorce…due to money.. property n my pension.
Sucks…

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3 comments

  1. Wolfman

    You shouldn’t have to live your life in misery because of him.
    If you wish to walk away, do it.
    He’s abusive. Sick or not he could be romantic and kind to his wife.
    He failed on his part to be a good husband. You’re not his emotional punching bag.
    It’s not cheap to divorce but your life is more valuable than this depression.
    Free yourself from the chains of torment and rebuild some peaceful happiness for yourself.
    I don’t believe in trying to make it work when the other person treats you like a door mat . You’re nobody’s fool.
    Go out for dinner and a movie and buy yourself a beautiful shirt or something nice. Reward yourself for taking notice that you deserve better.
    Be happy.
    It’s your life.

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  2. fstoptwo

    I feel, you need to tell him exactly what you have just said. You then either come together or you leave him. Money will not make you happy. How much is enough? Your happiness together is worth the work if you do it together.Remember, in sickness and in health too? It sounds like you are at the end of your tether and a release.

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  3. marie2

    Ok heres some advice…try it and see if anything changes,,,you got nothing to lose… Start being super sweet and nice and nurtureing and kind and encourageing and validateing to him and agreeable..yes honey theres no food in the house. Yes honey I know your in pain I wish I could kiss it away. ect…I think he is haveing trouble copeing and is getting depressed which lowers your feel good serotonin chemicals. He needs that to be built back up so he can feel strong enough emotionally to deal with his issues. And thats where you come in sweety…build that man of yours up. Make it your mission for the next 6 months to build him back up. This is where he needs you emotionally. When a woman nurtures her man his self confidence grows and when a woman validates and respects hwer man his self esteem grows. Start today. Go take a ten minute nap after work and then spend 20 minutes an evening talking beautifully and lovingly to YOUR MAN. Dont divorce him. That would be a kick in the face.He needs your nurtureing. Not for forever but for now. Just do it and see how loving and kind and giving you can be to him in every area. You might find your own negative feelings start to melt away as you practice love. God Bless.

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