Hi I’ve been married 20 years to whom I thought was a gorgeous, generous loving man until I found a bank statement of his, which showed him booking hotels on the nights he said he was working away. He confessed that he was seeing someone but he had no feeling for this woman he just liked having hard sex with her. We have not made love for at least 5 years as I had an accident & left me with a very painful back. My question is should I leave him as I feel very betrayed, I love him still but he won’t stop seeing this woman so I feel he has no respect for me & if I stay that means I have no respect for me either. What should I do please.