I have been married to my husband for 28 years, and for many of those years he was having an affair with another (married) woman. After all has been said and done, we are consciously repairing the damage done, and fidelity is in our lives. We have been unable to heal our marriage, however, because of the interference of the other woman. She has been told, fully and completely, over and over, to leave us alone, but she finds ways to make contact one way or another. She has a husband and a family and grandchildren and her own life. How do you get rid of someone like that?