After 18 years of marriage, my wife and I have grown apart. We still care a lot about each other, but it doesn’t feel like love anymore. Our relationship has been platonic for past six years, which has been very hard for me. Now I don’t have a bad thing to say about her – she is a good woman, attractive, but the spark between us has gone – we are just friends now, and thats all its been for a long, long time. She likes the lifestyle I provide, and being a mother to our kids – I feel she sees me as the provider and good father to our kids, and that is all. We are in our mid-40s, have raised 3 wonderful kids, and paid off our home. She does not seem to have the energy to put effort into us – I want to go for romantic walks on the beach, but she just want to watch TV. I am an educated, financially successful and muscular guy – women are constantly checking me out at the gym or on the way to work, but I want to be an honourable man. I am not chasing after skirt, and I don’t want to damage my kids, but sometimes I feel like I am dying inside. I would only move on if I found true love.