I pay full rent, personal bills; contribute to household finances (groceries, baby diapers, daycare, etc) and take us out on dates. She always nags me about not being home to help raise child. With the 2 jobs I keep us afloat and provide us with stability. I have weekends off and spend it all on family. The nagging gets old real fast. Just being a husband that takes care of his family & not slack like deadbeats out there.