I’ve been married a year and we have an infant. It’s amazing we have any sex life at all with what we’ve been through, but lately I’ve been wanting to get more oral. He loves blowjobs and orgasming from them but the strange thing is he only sometimes wants to do down on me. He gets blowjobs all the time, I get oral once a month. He’ll stay down there for a decent amount of time but hasn’t made me orgasm yet like that. In all fairness I haven’t really brought this up to him and I don’t want to do it in a way that turns him off to it. I know he’s had a bunch of bad experiences in the past but then he tells me he actually enjoys doing it to me which is surprising for him. I tell him how much I like it but I want to know some sexy ways to make him want to go down more