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Why do my friends think it’s gross that my husband is 24 years older than me?
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21 July

Why do my friends think it’s gross that my husband is 24 years older than me?

I'm 24 and my husband is 48. My friends all think he's too old for me. I love my husband but I feel self conscious whenever I'm with him in public because my friends have made such a big deal about our age difference and I guess also because he's gone gray in the last year and really starting to show his age. When I married him I was 20 and he was 44. He was still very fit and looked much younger but now he's not so fit any more and with the gray hair he doesn't look young any more. Is it bad th
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Marriage money problem – husband spends on jewelry for himself
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18 July

Marriage money problem – husband spends on jewelry for himself

My husband is always spending money on jewelry for himself. He likes a lot of gold chains and gold bracelets and gold rings. I gave up hoping he'll stop wearing these things. I hate to see him in them. I think he looks like a pimp but he apparently thinks he looks good. He's 54. He never buys me jewelry by the away, and he's always pawning his jewelry for what I don't know but he's always pawning them and then we're in financial problems because he's always having to take money out of his pay ch
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A 25 year old is after my husband – I’m 45 – how can I compete?
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16 July

A 25 year old is after my husband – I’m 45 – how can I compete?

There's a 25 year old woman working as a paralegal at the law firm where my husband works. She's after my husband. She's pretty and has a great figure and I think something might already be going on between her and my husband. I'm 45 and feel like I can't compete with a 25 year old. How can I prevent her from breaking up my marriage?
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My husband’s 23 year old secretary is trying to steal him from me
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12 July

My husband’s 23 year old secretary is trying to steal him from me

My husband insists I have nothing to worry about, but his 23 year old secretary has her sights set on him and I'm concerned it's not as harmless as he claims. The girl flirts with him in front of my face. Every time I go to his office I notice she's wearing inappropriately short skirts and low cut tops. She'll come into the office while I'm in there and make herself obvious in some way and sometimes she'll even say things about my outfit like, my mother has those same shoes or where did you get
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My husband wants to divorce me because I got fat
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10 July

My husband wants to divorce me because I got fat

When my husband and I met I was 21 and in great shape. We got married when I was 25. I was still in great shape and I stayed that way until I was 28 when I gained 65 pounds while pregnant with our first daughter. Although I lost most of the weight from my first pregnancy I never went back to looking the way I did before I got pregnant. My husband swore he was okay with me being a size 8 instead of a size 2. He said I looked sexier with meat on my bones; but then I got pregnant again and I gained
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Is it wrong of me to refuse to let my husband’s mother near our children?

My husband's mother has always been a serious b**ch to me. The last I've heard she's said I'm a bad mother and that both my children will probably be juvenile delinquents by the time they turn twelve. She thinks I'm not good enough for her son, calls me and my relatives trailer trash. I've decided I don't want to have anything to do with her and I want to keep my children away from her too. Is it wrong of me to not want her to have anything to do with my kids?
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