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I feel stuck and guilty
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01 June

I feel stuck and guilty

I feel stuck in my marriage. I've been with my husband for 14 years married 9 years we have 2 children together. In the beginning it was all good we both had jobs, shared the same interest, it seemed we were perfect. A short time later we had our first child when at that time I took time off from work and he continued working. I took off from work for 3 years which during the end of those years we had our second child.Not long after I went back to work and he stopped working, he became the stay
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my husband had another affair but got someone pregnant this time
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22 May

my husband had another affair but got someone pregnant this time

My husband has cheated many times and always lies then comes clean. We have kids and I didnt want my family to be like mine growing up so I always hoped he would change but it never lasts. His most recent affair turned out like most of them where the girl didnt know he was married or thought he was seperated (which doesnt mean divorced). She started getting suspicious and found out my name and contacted me on fb. She said she is pregnant and is so sorry she fell for his lies. He has kept lying a
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Should I get a divorce?
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19 April

Should I get a divorce?

My husband and I have been married 10 yrs and have 2 children. About a year ago we were drifting apart and when I would confront my husband he told me he thought everything was fine. I didn't feel it was and I thought that maybe he was cheating. So I snooped on his phone and I didn't find any evidence of cheating, but I found his internet history. There was lots of porn. Anal porn, gay porn, and lots of looking at women in tights. One search in particular that bothered me was 18 yr old in tights
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Wife is getting a PhD
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17 April

Wife is getting a PhD

So I love my wife more than anything. She is my rock. She's working on a PhD and becoming very well known in her field. She goes to these conferences and when she does I never hear from her. I'll get an "I love you" text or a "ugh soooo tired" and the occasional phone call on speaker phone while she gets ready to go out and "network" and this is what bugs me. I ask her to text me when she lands...I get no text but see she has posted a snapchat and gone on Facebook. She calls 90 minutes after lan
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Should I take him back?
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06 April

Should I take him back?

My husband left me for another woman a year and a half ago. She recently broke up with him and he wants us to get back together. I have moved on with my life but I really don't like the whole dating scene and wouldn't mind having a steady man in my life. I already know my husband. I still find him attractive and I think it will be good for our son to have his dad back living at home.
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Is watching porn cheating?
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31 March

Is watching porn cheating?

I'm a happily married man and recently I've seen articles that assert that watching pornography often leads to physical cheating but the simple act of watching is engaging in emotional cheating that can cause marriages to end. I'll admit that I watch porn. I don't consider my "habit" to be destructive or to negatively affect my marriage at all but now that I've read so many comments from wives saying that porn destroyed their marriage I'm concerned I might be damaging my marriage without knowing
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OCD for complaining??
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20 January

OCD for complaining??

I know everyone's spouse complains but what Im about to ask I think is different... From the moment my husband gets up, every 20 minutes, half hour, or hour my spouse complains about whatever it is that is ailing him that day. One day it's "Ughh my back hurts". Another day it's "Ughh my head is killing me", "My stomach is killing me babe" and so on and so forth. It literally sucks the life out of me because he doesn't take anything for whatever pain to make it better. I ask him if he took any
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My wife’s lost weight but its to much. What do I do?
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07 August

My wife’s lost weight but its to much. What do I do?

My wife has lost a lot of weight due to health issues not that the ulcerative colitis made her lose the weight but that she has so drastically changed her eating habits now she has lost so much weight its affecting me she doesn't look almost 50 she looks 70 and acts 70 too I don't want to touch her anymore because she is so bony and she doesn't want to do anything thing anymore go out or go on vacation because of her lack of energy and nothing I say seems to make any difference she's not anore
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